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The Dating Advice You Never Got – Pastor Stephen Chandler Drops Relationship BOMBS on Lecrae



In this powerful and entertaining episode, I’m chopping it up with the wise, hilarious, and insightful Stephen Chandler—pastor of Union Church and author of “Relationship Roadmap: A Step-by-Step Direction to Finding Your Spouse.” Stephen keeps it real as we dive into dating, relationships, and marriage, sharing gems that will make you laugh, think deeply, and possibly challenge how you’ve been moving in relationships.

Here’s what we’re diving into:

– What’s really the point of dating? (Hint: It’s deeper than you think!)
– Chemistry, compatibility, and emotional boundaries—how do we navigate all that?
– How to spot those red and green flags and why you can’t afford to ignore them
– Why “test driving” relationships can set you up for trouble
– Why shared values aren’t optional (and the cost of overlooking them)

Stephen’s authentic mix of humor and wisdom makes this a must-watch episode—whether you’re single, dating, or thinking about marriage. If you’re ready for some real talk about relationships, this is for you.

Let’s go to the Deep End!

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Read his book! – Relationship Road Map: Step-By-Step Directions to Finding Your Spouse – https://www.stephenrchandler.com/relationship-road-map

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Chapter Markers:
0:00 – Coming up
1:05 – Today’s Guest, Stephen Chandler
3:29 – What’s the Point of Dating?
5:49 – Let’s Talk About Chemistry
7:23 – Dating: How Long Is Too Long?
12:45 – Ad: Take the Survey: https://gum.fm/lecrae
13:39 – How Our History Impacts Us
16:11 – Committed to Holiness
21:20 – Financial Burdens: Who Carries What?
28:17 – Emotional Promiscuity: Guarding Your Heart
33:59 – Spiritual Manipulation
38:11 – Exclusive?
44:03 – Is Age Just a Number?
49:40 – Unequally Yoked
55:13 – Learning From His Mistakes
56:22 – Two Shall Become One
59:23 – The Right Time to Get Married
1:02:34 – Let’s Talk About S*x and Holiness
1:11:20 – Do They Really Like Me?
1:15:53 – Marry Someone You Can Build With
1:22:45 – Values: Being at a Crossroads 
1:25:58 – When the Sparks Fade
1:30:25 – Final Thoughts and Conclusion

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